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Anilingus and Rimming Tutorials For Learning How to Rim Someone

  • Jun.23.2021
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What Is Rimming

Have you ever heard of someone giving or receiving a rim job? What about analingus; what is anilingus? Both of these terms have the same meaning, and the rimming meaning is probably exactly what you think. Rimming, rim jobs, or analingus are all terms that mean using your tongue and mouth to pleasure someone’s anus. It is a sexual act that has been around since the beginning of sexual curiosity and, and it has continued to be practiced because it feels perfect to get rimmed. If you’ve heard more about it lately, it may be because sex positivity movements are pushing it towards the mainstream. Rimming is not everyone’s cup of tea, which is why if you or your partner don’t feel comfortable about the idea, don’t sweat it and never pressure someone to do something that they’re not totally on board with. That means enthusiastic consent is key. If both you and your partner are 100% enthused to try rimming, you’re in luck because this article is going to teach you some helpful rim job tips as part of this easy guide to rimming.

Rimming Instructions

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When it comes to rim jobs, there needs to be an understanding that things can change from day to day that will impact whether a person is ready to receive a rim job. If they have an upset stomach or feel gassy it might not be the best time to put your tongue where the sun doesn’t shine.

There is also the question whether the person who is getting analingus would prefer to do an enema to ensure that everything is cleared out of the rectal cavity for the most clean feeling and experience for both parties. If this is the case, plenty of time needs to be taken in preparation for the event, so you need to discuss with your partner before, so the proper planning can take place. If you or your partner don’t feel the need for an enema it is possible to have a rim job be a spur of the moment event, but if you or your partner don’t feel super comfortable with it in a moment of passion, you need to respect this boundary and not pry too much into the reasoning.

As I said before, enthusiastic consent is a must, and you should never pressure anyone or feel pressured to perform a sex act. Once you know that you and your partner are both prepared and consenting to the rim job, you can rock and roll. Start slowly and gently, potentially by kissing your way to your partner’s inner thighs and eventually their anus. You can lick around the opening of the anus and do some light vertical strokes with your tongue up and down. You can also get to the taint with your tongue and kiss around the entire area. When it comes to inserting your tongue inside, make sure that your partner is comfortable with a bit of light penetration with your tongue before going for it. Some like to use rimming as foreplay for anal sex while others like to do it as the main event. Whatever you choose to do just be prepared for your night to go in any direction, and if that direction is anal sex make sure that you have some lube on hand to get all the good sensations.

How to Give a Good Rim Job

One of the most helpful rimming tips is to find out the answer for yourself to the question “what does rimming feel like?” unlike some other sex acts that you may not be interested in indulging in or that you may not have the equipment to understand, rimming can totally be done with anyone by anyone who is interested in trying it. If you’re down to try getting rimmed yourself it could totally enhance your ability to give your partner a good rim job when it’s your turn to get in there. If you’re not really into the idea of getting a rim job, but you want to give your partner the rim job of your life there are certainly other ways that you can work on your rimjob techniques and improve your overall rim job game.

There are totally ways that you can enhance the experience of a rim job for your partner by adding a few more elements to the experience. This could mean using your hands to stimulate your partner in other ways while you’re using your tongue on their anus. You could touch your partner’s nipples, touch their bum cheeks, lube up and use your hands on their penis, insert fingers into their vagina or stimulate their clitoris. You could also pull their hair or spank them depending on what they’re into and what position you’re in. That brings me to my next point!

Rimjob Positions

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There are a few excellent rim job positions that you can choose from to make your experience with analingus that much more exciting. You can give a rim job from behind in a doggy style type of position where one partner is on all fours and the other is licking from behind. You could also have your partner sit on your face for analingus. Another possible position is to have one partner lie on their back with their legs up in the air while the second partner holds their legs and licks them from below. Experimenting with different positions can really add to the fun of rimming and make for different angles and sensations. You can try all three of these positions and whatever other positions you can figure out with your partner to find what position gives you the most pleasure and the best feelings.

Is Rimming Dangerous?

Rimming is not typically a dangerous act, however there are a couple of rimming dangers.

To look out for that you wouldn’t necessarily need to consider with other sexual acts. Let’s talk about STIs and other kinds of infections to be cautious about when engaging in oral to anal pleasure.

E Coli and Salmonella

Bacteria is one of the few risks of rimming and the only risk that is more necessary to worry about due to the nature of the sexual act versus other sexual acts that you might be into. The act of rimming means bringing your mouth to a place that could potentially harbor bacteria like E coli and Salmonella, which could get you seriously sick if you ingest too much. The way to avoid this is to make sure that the area is squeaky clean before any tongues (or toys, fingers or penises) go down there. It is also possible to spread these bacteria that can be found in the anus to other parts of the body that are sensitive like the vagina. This means if you are giving analingus to a person with a vagina, you shouldn’t switch effortlessly between anal and vaginal stimulation because this could push bacteria into the vagina and lead to infection. Don’t put your tongue too deep and make sure that the area is clean in order to avoid this kind of worry about infection. You should be good to go if you follow this advice, but do understand that this is a risk you’re taking if you’re putting your mouth in this specific area.

Can You Get STD From Rimming

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Another thing to mention is that it is possible to get an STD from rimming. It is totally possible to transmit STIs through anal to oral sex so the best way to go about having safe sex is to use barrier protection like a dental dam and making sure that you and your partner are both tested for STIs frequently. This means every six months or after every new sexual partner.

Now that you’ve read through this how to rim guide you are totally prepared to engage in some pleasurable and safe anilingus whenever you and your partner are ready to give it a go. Remember to go slow and be respectful of your partner’s boundaries and to keep an open mind. Who knows, it might be your new absolute favorite thing to do in the bedroom!

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