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Playing with Tits

  • Feb.19.2021
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The second base can be a crucial step in knowing whether you want to go farther with a partner, so you want to know what to do with a girl’s boobs when you’re given the opportunity to enjoy them. Boobs, breasts, tits, tatas, melons, whichever of the countless names you’d like to use for them, they’re not just ornamental or for the pleasure of the partner who gets to touch them. Breast and nipple play can be an extremely sensual and important part of sexual arousal and achievement of orgasm for those with breasts.

Breasts come in so many different shapes and sizes, but no shape or size excludes them from being worthy of love and attention. Not everyone with breasts likes to incorporate them into their sexual activities, so make sure that you receive consent before going in for some breast play. Some trans and non-binary folks experience dysphoria when it comes to their chests, so it’s best to be sensitive and communicative before touching.

Once you know your partner is into it, how do you know what to do with boobs? Well just like everybody is different, boobs can be very different from person to person and even from week to week in the same person. Some people like their boobs touched a lot, others don’t find them that stimulating. Some people like a lot of pressure on their boobs and others find that too overwhelming.

Another thing to be aware of is if your partner is in a specific place in the menstrual cycle because this can alter the sensations they feel from their breasts. Boob sensitivity changes as the menstrual cycle do its things. Your partner might really like their nipples gently bitten one day and the next to find it too intense or painful. It’s also important to note that pregnancy and breastfeeding can make changes to how a person experiences sensation in their breasts.

If your partner is pregnant or breastfeeding now or in the recent past, be sensitive to the fact that their boobs might have changed or required something different than they did before. In any scenario, it’s typically best to start out slow and see how your partner responds to progression. The best way to play with breasts is different from person to person so don’t treat each pair of tatas the same.

How to Get Started: What to Do with Boobs

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So we know not to treat every pair of breasts the same. So how do you know what to do with a girl’s boobs? As I mentioned before, start slow. Get sensual with the touching and don’t go for anything too aggressive or hard right away. Not many people really like the boob honk or squeeze that seems to be an adolescent go to.

Go with a light touch at first, the sensation of skin on the skin can be really, shall we say, titillating. Run just one finger up and down a breast slowly. See if each time your finger runs over the nipple makes it more erect. Don’t neglect the side of the breast near the armpit or the curvature of the underboob. Tracing these parts of the breast and occasionally cupping and moving the breast around in a firm but not aggressive manner can bring a really nice feeling. I suggest thinking about a circular motion or an upward motion bringing the breast up and off of the sternum from the bottom and using your hand to soften the way it falls back down.

Using the fullness of your palm which then extends into your finger is a much more pleasant way to hold onto a boob than kneading with your fingers. Kneading doesn’t often feel great especially for those with sensitive breasts. The nipple is very important and the place to squeeze, pull and stimulate. The nipple is so important that It deserves its own paragraph, so read below to find out more on nipple play.

In reference to how to squeeze boobs, think more about caressing the skin and filling your hands with your partner’s breast than about kneading their breasts. Your partner might really like the feeling of having the full weight of their breasts in your hands. This might feel different depending on how large or small your partner’s breasts are.

Little boobs like love too, so don’t neglect them just because they’re small. If your partner has very large boobs, you don’t have to make them the center of the experience. Regardless of size or shape, ask your partner what they like. Starting out slow and reading the cues is great, but asking is truly the best way to know what really makes them tick.

The Power of the Nipple

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Nipples are super powerful. They are an absolutely essential part of knowing how to play with tits. There are many instances in which a woman playing with her nipples can lead to an intense orgasm. Sometimes no genital stimulation even has to happen for an orgasm to occur. Don’t miss out on the power there! If you want to know how to get the maximum potential out of nipple play, there are a few tips you should follow in order to proceed.

Nipples, like genitals, can be more or less sensitive depending on the person (and don’t forget the time of month too). Some people like a lot of direct and vigorous stimulation to their nipples, while others find that way too overstimulating and even painful. Again, it’s best to start slow and see where it takes you and, you guessed it, ASK! There are so many ways to play with nipples. With your fingers, you can gently squeeze, pull, and massage. You can hold the weight of your partner’s boob in your hand and play with their nipple between your fingers at the same time.

Some people like twisting and pulling, but others find it very uncomfortable so ask your partner about what they like. With your mouth you can lick, kiss, suck and if they’re into it, bite a little bit. Not sure how to kiss a woman’s breasts? Start with their neck or collar bones, then bring the kisses down to their sternum while holding your partner’s breast(s).

You can kiss all over the skin of your partner’s breast or just make your way directly to the nipple. Start with a little bit of kissing and or licking and then see how your partner responds. Your partner will either want you to continue to intensify with sucking and biting or keep at your same level of gentleness. Going farther beyond using your body, if your partner really likes nipple play you could venture into exploration with toys like nipple clamps, feathers, and other sensory playthings.

Let Your Partner Control Their Own Destiny

There is something really hot about a woman playing with her boobs during sex. Let your partner show you how they like to be touched by observing how they touch themself. You could even have them hold on to your hands while you caress or squeeze. Sometimes this happens without any discussion and other times a quick “show me what you like” can go a long way. It’s sexy to see your partner enjoying their own body and sexuality and to know that they’re feeling good.

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