Kivin Method Tutorial for Beginners – Learning How to do the Kivin Method Step by Step

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The Kivin Method

The kivin method or the kivin technique is a method and positioning for cunnilingus that many cunnilingus receivers report to have a higher rate of orgasm, faster orgasm and more intense and pleasurable orgasm. What is so special about the kivin method of oral sex that sets it apart from your typical cunnilingus? The simple answer and the entire point of the kivin method is the perpendicular position. The kivin method can also simply be called sideways oral because instead of classic positioning where one partner’s head goes between the other partner’s legs while lying down, the kivin position is where one partner lies on their pack and the partner giving cunnilingus lies at a 90-degree angle to their partner. How does this work? What makes it better? Read and find out with this kivin method tutorial.

Kivin Method Explained

Why do so many people prefer the kivin method to the typical positioning for oral sex? For one thing, this positioning opens the receiver up for more possibility when they’re getting cunnilingus. The sideways entry point allows the giver to get to more areas of the vulva than they might be able to if they were going in vertically. The perineum (the space between the vagina and the anus), the labia, and the entirety of the clitoris are easier to access via this sideways positioning because of how the legs have to open to get there. The other really awesome aspect of the kivin method is the way that the sideways angle allows for easier horizontal strokes with the tongue on the clitoris, a technique that a lot of vulva owners love and find brings them more quickly and intensely to orgasm. Keep in mind that while our data is from the attestation of real live vulva owners, there are some people who don’t really like the kivin method at all and would prefer not to do things that way. Be sure to ask and listen to your partner about what they desire and need from you during sex and not to pressure them into something or claim to know more about their body than they do. If your partner is excited to try the kivin method, or asks you for it specifically, here are some tips and instructions on how to do it.

Kivin Method How To

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If you want some help figuring out how to do the kivin method step by step we have some easy kivin method instructions for you. While describing the kivin method positioning may seem a little bit complicated, it is actually extremely easy. There are a few ways that you can get in position for the kivin method or sideways oral. One way you can do it is to have the receiving partner lie on their back while the other partner lies on their stomach at a 90-degree angle with their face at pelvis level. Then get the partner lying on their back to lift one leg so that the giving partner can get to the good stuff. Once the leg is lifted it can either go on their partner’s back, around their neck, or just up in the air. Be careful with this last one because you might end up kicking around unexpectedly when the feelings start to get intense. The other way that you could do it is again with one partner on their back but this time the partner on their back puts their legs or knees up to their chest so that their partner can give them sideways oral with no barriers. You are totally free to play around with different variations and ways that you can position yourself and your partner so that you can get to this sweet spot. Sitting on your partner’s face is always a fun one, but maybe you could do it at a diagonal instead of straight on as your partner tilts their head to the side to allow for more range of motion and horizontal tongue strokes.

Again, not everyone is going to like the same things because believe it or not no two vulvas are exactly alike. Make sure that you communicate with your partner about their individual needs and desires so that you can fulfill them to the best of your ability. If your partner is interested in trying the kivin method, it could lead to more intense and easily attainable orgasms, and who doesn’t want that?

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