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Tips on How to Give a Really Good Handjob – Learn it All With This Handjob Guide

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Handjob Guide

Handjobs are an underrated sex act that are truly important to understand and get a grip on (pun intended) if you want to level up your sex life. Many people skip the idea of a handjob and go straight to other stuff like oral sex or penetrative sex, but it’s a truly intimate and wonderful thing to give or receive a really amazing handjob. If you feel awkward about giving a guy a hand job or you think that they can probably do a better job on their own you should really take a look at this handjob guide to understanding the benefits and pleasures of learning to use your hands and use them well. Read all about how to give a hand job that rocks your partner’s world in this article.

Ways to Give a Handjob

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The best way to give a hand job is different for different people because not all penises are the same. For example, an amazing handjob for a circumcised penis is going to be very different from a handjob that would feel great for an uncircumcised penis. You aren’t going to be able to do exactly the same handjob technique for a very wide and long penis vs a shorter or less girthy one. There are many good handjob techniques that exist, but you will have to ask your partner what they like in order to understand how to give the best handjob for your particular partner. Try a few different ways to give a hand job and see which one your partner likes best and be patient with the process.

Handjob Instructions

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If you’ve never given a handjob before then you might be looking for some advice about hand jobs for beginners. Keep in mind that before you give a handjob you should take some time to build the tension and arousal and get both you and your partner ready. Don’t go straight for the money right away, but instead start with some kissing, caressing, grinding and embracing. Once you feel that you’re both ready for the handjob and you have consent, you can start to go over the pants or clothing that your partner is wearing until you feel that you have teased them enough.

Then you can really go for it. Take your partner’s penis and start with gentle strokes. If your partner is uncircumcised, be cautious that you’re not pulling the foreskin in an uncomfortable way.

The best way to be sure about what is comfortable, uncomfortable, or feeling amazing for your partner is to check in. Ask your partner if what you’re doing feels good or what they want you to do to them and see what they say. To find out what grip and how strongly or lightly to hold your partner’s penis you can do the same. It should be like when you get a massage or when the hairdresser washes your hair and asks if the pressure is okay. Checking in shows care for the other person’s pleasure and saves you from potentially hurting your partner or doing something that they’re not that interested in.

Depending on the size and shape of your partner’s penis you could experiment with using two hands or one hand, or even adding a little use of your mouth if that is something you’re both into. If you’re getting positive feedback from your partner then you are going to want to continue what you’re doing and even amp up the speed until your partner gets to a climax. You might want to have a plan about what to do when your partner ejaculates. You can get steamy with this part and choose to have your partner cum somewhere on your body that you find sexy (think chest, thigh, bum) or simply somewhere practical like a towel which would make for super easy cleanup.

Tips for a Good Handjob

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One of the most important hands job tricks is to use water-based or oil-based lubrication to help things move and glide. Using spit might seem like a good idea at first but it will dry up quickly and leave you without proper lubrication at a bad time. This is where your secret weapon comes in. Sexual lubricant can be even more fun if you get one that is scented or flavored, especially if the handjob may lead to a blow job or if it’s all you’re planning to do.

Another good tip is to have a mutual masturbation session so you can see what your partner does and what makes them feel good. You can then use that as a guide for how they would like to be touched and follow suit accordingly.

Lastly, a fun way to spice up your handjob is to bring in the use of toys. There is no reason why you couldn’t experiment with a cockring (vibrating or not) while you’re giving your partner a handjob. In fact, this could make the experience a lot more pleasing. Another way to use toys might even be to use one on yourself while you’re giving the handjob so that it can be a mutually stimulating experience. You might find yourself more enthusiastic and hot for your partner while you’re giving the handjob if you’ve got a little something going on for yourself.

Now that you have some tips on giving a good handjob, be sure to experiment safely and to be sure that your hands are clean and your consent is enthusiastic. If you know that you or your partner currently have an STI you will need to be very careful to avoid transmission. You can do this by handwashing and even wearing latex gloves which could even be super sexy if you’re into the latex look.

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