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Guide to Pegging

  • Feb.24.2021
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Pegging is a sexual act that seems to be gaining traction and popularity among sex-positive people in the media. Recently it has shown up in popular TV shows like Broad City and movies like Deadpool.

The idea of pegging while exciting and sexy for some might seem daunting for others. Whether you’re interested in pegging or you’re not sure, treat this article like your intro to pegging, so you can get a better idea of what it’s all about and why some people love it.

Pegging Beginner Basics:

Pegging is when a person, usually a woman but not exclusively so, uses a strap on to anally penetrate a person with a prostate. Pegging can be a really fun way to switch up gender and dominance roles if that’s what you want to get out of it, but it is important to note that wanting to get pegged does not change your sexuality.

If you’re a straight man, getting pegged by a woman doesn’t mean that you are gay or bisexual. It is simply another form of stimulation that you simply can not experience from the penis in vagina sex.

Preparing for Pegging

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If you’re looking for a little bit of pegging advice for what to do before the action takes place, there are a few things that you should definitely know or consider. Preparing for anal penetration takes more than just a few deep breaths and a whim. If you want to really do this right, you should try inserting something a little smaller than a dildo up there before you go for gold.

If you know that you like digital anal penetration then maybe you’re ready to take it a step further. If you’re not sure, try experimenting with some fingers up there either on your own or with a partner. Get to know the sensation of prostate stimulation and see how it can heighten your sexual experience.

Some prostate owners really like to be penetrated anally either with a finger or a dildo while they’re getting oral sex. Prostate pleasure plus a blowjob can make for a super intense and powerful orgasm. If you’ve experienced something like this but want to move forward with getting pegged via a strap. Prepare yourself making sure your partner is lubed up, relaxing, and being mindful in the process.

Pegging How-To

The actual explanation of how to peg or get pegged is pretty similar to an explanation of how to have anal sex. There are things you can do to prepare for it; check out this article on anal training if you’re new to the subject. Ultimately there are many ways you can set yourself up for success, but everybody is different so be patient with yourself and your partner and trust the process.

When you feel you’re ready to try pegging for the first time, spend some time with your partner picking out the right dildo and strap-on apparatus. If you’re not super keen on the idea of a living like dildo, you can totally opt for one in a bright color with no resemblance to a penis. You will want to choose one in the smaller size, better to go smaller than to get one that’s too big and will cause pain or won’t fit.

You will also want to invest in some good lube. Make sure that if you’re using a silicone toy that you do not buy a silicone-based lubricant because it will erode the toy. If you’re not sure, ask the person at the sex shop or chat with the online sales representative if you’re ordering online. Once you’ve got everything you need, remember to go slow and have good solid communication with your partner about how you’re feeling.

The difference between pegging and anal sex with a penis is that your partner will not be able to feel the dildo. Without any sensation in the dildo, they have way less awareness of what’s happening and might not know if they’ve gone too deep or not deep enough.

Pegging Tips for Positions

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When we see or imagine pegging in popular media, we often see it in the doggy style position. While this position is fun and works for some, there may be another way that feels better for you and your partner, so don’t shy away from mixing it up and trying out 3 or 4 positions to see which one you like best. Some people really enjoy it when their partner is lying on their back with their knees up and the person with the strap on penetrates from a modified missionary position.

This allows more eye contact and sensuality than doggy style. Something to note when we talk about sensual pegging is that sensual pegging is definitely a thing that people are into. It might be about switching up dominance for some, but for others, it’s purely about pleasure and it can be really intimate, slow, and sweet. Just like any other kind of sex, it can be sensual and slow, or it can be rowdy and hot.

Another position people really enjoy is the cowboy position, which like a cowgirl, means that the person with the strap-on lies on their back while the person with a prostate gets on top and rides them. This is a way that the person being pegged can find their dominance in the act and really choose their own destiny.

Why do People Love Pegging?

First and foremost, the most popular reason that prostate owners love to be pegged seems to be for the insanely powerful orgasms that they bring. There is a sensation that comes from a prostate massage or prostate stimulation that can not be accessed from just penis stimulation alone. Why go is your whole life not tapping into that immense pleasure because of archaic societal taboos around anal play?

Reports from men who enjoy pegging include stories about having full-body orgasms or orgasms that are so powerful that the ceiling needed cleaning. Why miss out on that? For people who want to use a strap-on to peg someone, the orgasm usually doesn’t accompany the activity, but for a select few with a pegging kink or fetish, they might actually be able to climax from the act of penetrating. Most, however, will be in it to make their partner feel good, and to see the look on their partner’s face when they have the most powerful orgasm of their life.

Another reason that people like pegging is for the experience of experimentation with traditional roles. Many people think that the act of being penetrated makes a person feminine or vulnerable, but that is truly a societal structure that does not necessarily play out when individuals experiment with breaking traditional roles in the bedroom.

There can be a lot of power and dominance in being penetrated, or there can be submission and playfulness, but it’s really up to how you and your partner choose to do things. Some people say one of the reasons they enjoy pegging is so that they can empathize with the person who normally gets penetrated or so that they can empathize with the penetrator. This ability to empathize may make you a better lover if and when you have a penis in vagina or penis in anus sex.

Sex is really all about seeking and sharing pleasure with your partner(s) and the more you experiment and explore the sensations and pleasures that your bodies allow, the better you will be at knowing them and making them tick.

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