The Most Difficult Sex Positions to Test Your Sex Skills

  • Dec.20.2020
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Have you been dying to try some new spicy stuff in the bedroom recently? If you’re looking to master some complicated sex positions, you’ve come to the right place. So what is the deal with difficult sex positions? Why do people want to try them if they’re so difficult?

Most Difficult Sex Positions

Well, I think that mastering difficult sexual positions can bring you a lot closer to your lover or partner. I wouldn’t test the hardest sex positions the first time you engage in sexual activity with a person, because this would make it difficult to get an understanding of what each others needs were, however, if you’ve been with someone for a long time or if you feel you’ve got an understanding of each other’s bodies, trying a hard sex position can take the hotness to a new level, bring about new and heightened sensations, and establish a greater sense of intimacy and trust. So I say go for it! Try out a difficult sex position, and spend the time and care it takes to get it grooving. Once you figure them out, you will have these difficult sex positions as part of your repertoire for life!

First, let’s discuss a few tips for suggesting these positions and then actually carrying them out. Bringing up wanting to try something a little more advanced to your lover can be sexy, and should never sound like you’re bored of what you’ve been doing up to this point. Tell them that they’re turning you on and that you want to please them and try this position you read about, that you think both of you will be really feeling it. When it comes time to try the position out for the first time, it might be good to talk about how you’re going to get your bodies in place. You can try this out before the sex actually happens so that there’s less maneuvering when it comes time. Practice can be done with clothes on, with talking, and in a light-hearted way. If you can’t do exactly what this article or any sex position guide tells you to, feel free to modify the position in a way that suits your needs and abilities. Sex and fun sex positions should be accessible to all kinds of bodies, not just able-bodied, young, or thin folks. We all deserve to have a vivacious sex life!

Okay so here we go, here are some of the most extreme and difficult sex positions we know of!

difficult sex positions

The Sofa Brace

This position is extremely stimulating for both participants. To get into it, the receiving partner drapes themself over the arm of a couch or sofa, and the giver gets behind them for penetration from behind. This position is particularly stimulating for women if they use the sofa arm to grind upon for some clitoral stimulation, or their lover can reach from behind to stimulate their clitoris. The Sofa Brace is more adventurous or spontaneous than doggy style, and it doesn’t have to be carried out on a sofa arm either! You can find just about any fun surface with a similar structure to use for this position!

The Sideways Straddle

This position is really fun and another great one for clitoral stimulation. Somewhere between cowgirl and reverse cowgirl, the sideways straddle is a receiver on top type of situation. The giving partner lies down on their back and props one knee up and the receiver sits on top sideways, facing the inside of the giver’s knee. The receiver can then begin to rock and grind using the upper thigh and pelvis area for as much pleasure as they can handle!

The Crab Walk Position

You asked for it, and we’re delivering. The crab walk position is one that might make you sore, or give you killer abs once you’re done! The premise is pretty much exactly what it sounds like, both of you get into the crab walk position, with your feet flat on the floor, the palms of your hands flat on the floor supporting you, your stomachs facing the ceiling, and your pelvises facing each other. Then your inch closer together until you connect. This position isn’t one that incites deep penetration, but it does give you a lot of control over what’s going on down there, and it’s quite a workout! If you need to modify or get different leverage you can change the amount of weight on your hands, put your weight on your elbows or interlace your legs in different ways. Try out different combinations and see what works best for you!

The Splitter

This one may require a bit of flexibility, but you can bend your knees as much as you need! The giver kneels in front of the receiver, who lies on their back, stretches one leg up, and places it atop the giver’s shoulder. This sexy position allows for very deep penetration and a great opportunity for some steamy eye contact.

X Marks the Spot

This position is a super spontaneous and stimulating one that both partners will absolutely love! The receiver lies on their back on a hip-level surface and brings their legs up atop the giver’s shoulders. The giver will be standing facing their lover and help bring their legs up. Once the receiver’s legs are up on the giver’s shoulders, the giver can cross the receiver’s legs at the ankles and help keep them thereby holding them, then penetrate from this angle. This position is really close and intimate, and it allows for deep penetration and G-spot stimulation! It can be done on any hip-level surface, like a counter, desk, or table. Just make sure the surface can support you because you will not want to stop once you start!

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